Pink hair...

It all started with pink hair. One day I realized that my life needed a shake up, a wake up, and a change up!! My life had become stagnant. Shocking considering that I am always packing my day full of things to do, but that is just it, I was filling my day with STUFF to do because I was trying to avoid being in my own head. Well, I came to a point in my life where I wanted to shake things up and wake up to what was going on around me.

I finally realized that I need more head space for myself. Big surprise, a mom who needs time to think! Just 20 minutes a day makes a huge difference. This revelation came when I went and got my hair "renovated" I dyed it black, purple, and pink. A far cry from the boring black that I always dyed it before. Many of the following choices that I made were strictly for me. Working from home has been wonderful and definitely needed. I work hard at my job and love what I do.

I also decided that I am going to be starting my own apothecary line as well. But first I need to save up some money from Pure Romance.

I enjoy running, organizing, and operating small business ventures. For those of you who do not know... we are moving in March(ish). We have a lovely new house that is almost double the size of our tiny two bedroom-er. Our zoo, we are an animal loving family, needs room to spread out.

This year is and has been a year of big changes. I'm excited to see what this year brings for me and my family. To think, it all started with pink hair....

Brightest Blessings
        )O(

To my Mommy's...

That's right.... I am shamelessly admitting that I needed to find a way to put my brain to use in an adult manner (outside the home) and get a job. Not one that took up too much of my time, seeing as I homeschool and take care of a toddler during the day. 

I wanted to do something fun and empowering. Now, I am not a shy person by any stretch. I love sex, have no problems talking about it, or even answering questions about it. I have a wealth of knowledge that I don't mind sharing either. I've noticed more and more that women don't know their own bodies, let alone their own sexuality. I wanted to help empower women to take that back and own what is theirs!

So I hooked up with a friend and began doing Pure Romance. It is a company that, yes sells bedroom enhancement products, but also focuses on educating women about their bodies and their sexuality. I love, and mean LOVE what I do. 

I get to meet a lot of wonderful, fun, and amazing women! I get paid to party. That's right I get paid to party. And I get to work as little or as much as I chose. My goal is about 2-3 parties a month. And that is low-balling. I do internet parties. I do in-person parties. I'm flexible. In the short time I've been doing this, I've been the #1 sales 2 out of 3 months. And I hardly work. 

We have products that sell themselves, great teams that support you and help you as much as possible, and fun. That's right.... we have FUN. Each party is tailored to the hostess's needs, be it a birthday party, bachlorette party, or just a product launch. 

If you are interested in throwing a party message me on Facebook or email me and we can set something up. If you'd like more information on becoming a consultant because this sounds like something you would be interested in doing, by all means, contact me!! Trust me... it is a blast and completely worth it!!


Brightest blessings
       )O(

New Year's Day

While everyone else will undoubtedly be posting about resolutions and the upcoming year I will not be. Instead I would like to have a Closing Ceremony for 2014. There are things that are very important to realize and take the time to let go of before starting a new year. Now I bet you're thinking, 'Why didn't you do this at the end of last year?'. True, these things should be done at the close of last year, however with all the planning and holiday season stuff that goes on, does anyone really have time to sit down and reflect on an entire year? Not when you have kids!

First step in this process, think about the really big events that happened throughout the year. For me, it was my 1 year anniversary of my marriage (we've been together for 7 though). It became a big family affair because they felt as though they missed out because we eloped. There was a lot of stress and anger that revolved around that time period. The event itself was beautiful and I had a good time. Switching from public school to homeschooling. It was a HUGE family dynamic shift but it was definitely for the best. Our family has benefited immensely from the change.   

Second step, review personal events, break-throughs, and breakdowns. There were many of all of these for me. Working on a children's book, returning to the work force and being a stay at home mom. There were just as many breakdown moments as well. Times when I just wanted to sit down, rip out my hair, and scream 'I quit!'. 

Third step, go over family centered events. Like the oldest's first tournament where he took a silver medal in sparring. Or Daddy starting his own company. Lastly, we just closed on a new house!

Fourth, time to let go of things that don't serve you anymore. Emotions, negative people who bring you down, bad habits. Time to say good bye to all of those things. Make a list and burn it. Rip it up and flush it down the toilet. Anything that symbolizes ridding yourself of these things. Say goodbye to the old for good. 

Now for the fun part... 

Lastly, let's invoke the new year! It's time to manifest and attract the things that you need and want in your life. Health, peace, happiness, wealth, you decide, YOU make it happen. Write down HOW you are going to make it happen. And release that into the universe. Be positive. Stay positive. Create a ritual to welcome the new (or maintain the positive) into your life.

I look forward to sharing with you in the new year! 

Brightest Blessings!
          )O(