Yesterday, we held the bi-weekly poker game at our house. Nothing out of the ordinary. Friends, children, and some family, all scattered about. It was a fun night. We all had a great time, as per the usual.
Before the game started however I was asked a question that caught me completely off guard. One of Daddy's friends were hanging out right before the game started when he looked at me and said "Hey, I have a question for you."
I responded with "OK, shoot."
"Do you really practice witchcraft in your basement?"
Now, I had two options. I could have just laughed it off and went about the evening. But that is not really who I am, so I went with option 2: honesty.
"I sure do." Was my answer. I am proud of who I am. I didn't see the point in lying. Although most of my spell work is done in the kitchen. I didn't see the point in making him needlessly uncomfortable. But my altar is in the basement, mainly because of lack of space, and I have slightly more privacy in the basement.
For the first 5 minutes after my answer I really thought that they were going to leave. I just felt the shift in energy from the comfortable gathering we had going to a very distinct chill from his and his girlfriend's direction. After the initial shock of my answer wore off he followed up with, "well there's lots of kinds of witchcraft, what do you do?"
Inwardly, I had to smile! I let him know that I don't usually interfere with other's lives or choices. Also I don't practice voodoo... that is a little too dark for my taste. And I am a firm believer in Karma, what you put out, you WILL receive back 3 fold!
I found out later the reason why he asked that question is because he had seen my altar when he and Daddy went to get the table.
Have you ever had anyone call you out in front of a bunch of people? I wasn't offended or anything. Actually, I thought it funny. I think my openness about who and what I am makes it easier for people to accept me and deal with the fact that I am a witch.
He even said he would have never guessed because I don't look like a witch. I wanted to ask him 'what do witches look like?' But Daddy had just arrived on scene with another of our poker guests and I got distracted. But it definitely made the highlights of the evening for me.
Well, yesterday was a very busy day for me so now I am off to bed for a nap while the baby sleeps!
Blessed Be!
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The good, bad, and fun times of a stay-at-home mother who also happens to be a witch.
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This is my space to share, rant, rave, and even do a little bragging about my life choices, family, and where each are taking me.
Many people think 'witch' and immediately jump to the conclusion that I am some weirdo who's home smells like stale incense and thinks Mr. Potter is end all be all of magick. I hate to disappoint, but I am as normal as the next person. As much as a person can be normal.
So, please read on. Enjoy my trials and tribulations. Hopefully, you can learn something from the mistakes I make and the good fortunes that come my way.
You can follow me on Instagram @Witchmomma
~Blessed Be~
Many people think 'witch' and immediately jump to the conclusion that I am some weirdo who's home smells like stale incense and thinks Mr. Potter is end all be all of magick. I hate to disappoint, but I am as normal as the next person. As much as a person can be normal.
So, please read on. Enjoy my trials and tribulations. Hopefully, you can learn something from the mistakes I make and the good fortunes that come my way.
You can follow me on Instagram @Witchmomma
~Blessed Be~
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I take the same route you did. I admit to it and then wait to see what the reaction is. A lot more people than I would expect leave it alone. It's rare that I have someone challenge my beliefs. I suppose I'm blessed that way and I know it's not the same for a huge portion of people. Cheers.
ReplyDeleteI had to hide who I was for so long. I refuse to now. And I have someone who supports me totally! Even if he does occasionally tease me about the hoodoo voodoo I practice in the basement :) I'm glad you are able to be yourself too! It's very liberating!
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